It's hard to describe that slow slide into old habits. You just
start behaving differently and within a few days, a week, a couple of weeks,
it's the new normal. Only after some pause and reflection that you realize this
is not how your life was a month or two ago.
I was back at Module
"O" at the General Hospital here in Ottawa yesterday. I reluctantly
made the appointment to see my shoulder surgeon, and trudged off at the
appointed time this afternoon. In making and attending this appointment, it was
an acknowledgement that the pain in my shoulder was a) real, b) substantial
enough to do something about, and c) something I need help with.
I really like my surgeon. We
have a good relationship, as well we might after nine surgeries together. We
had a good discussion about how long this has been going on (6-7 weeks), what
kind of pain is it (throbbing, sandpaper-y), when am I experiencing pain (it
seems to be escalating, as in it is starting to become more prominent earlier
in the day and sticks around until bedtime), what I've been doing (mostly pain
meds and less activity) and what do to next (here comes the crappy part).
Neither of us is super keen to
open up my joint. For those of you just joining my blog, I've had two
infections on past shoulder surgeries and I'm not keep to open up my joint to
the possibility of another one. My x-rays showed the hardware looks good, and
seems to be solidly in place. Given I've only had pain for the past 6-7 weeks,
a wait-and-see approach is not a bad option. I'm on pain meds daily - the
variety, frequency and quantity change daily. I have some good days, and some
bad days. No real causation that I can determine between my good days and bad
days, my activity and my meds.
The downside of wait-and-see is
that I'm in pain, daily. I will see him again in mid-January to see how things
are going.
I'm trying very hard not to
panic. I'm trying to wait and see what happens. I'm trying. But the possibility
of more shoulder issues, and the slim chance of another surgery is devastating.
And I've had more than a few tears this week as I try and look to the future
and see where all of this is heading.
I have - however - started to
drive more one handed as my right shoulder is sore. I've started to favour my
left arm. I'm exhausted from the pain, so I've started to lie down when I get
home from work. I'm just doing less, and feeling lesser. Normally I can pull
off being "normal". That seems to be harder to do these days, and I'm
less interested in trying. It just takes too much damn effort.
The National is one of my
favourite bands. They have a new album out and a tour all over North America,
hitting Montreal in December and I'll be going. Empire Line is one
of the new songs, and the hypnotic beat and repetitive chorus reminds me to keep my
chin up, I'm sure I can find a way.
